I would say I had no idea what to expect, but I did have expectations. I expected to be overwhelmed. To feel severely behind. To come away feeling like an isolated techno-idiot amidst a group of profoundly connected and accomplished women. I expected that I wouldn’t fit in. But when I signed up for BlogHer ’14, I decided to set all that aside and just show up. And that, I figured, would probably teach me something about myself. It did.